Tuesday, March 11, 2008

TMI Tuesday #18

Welcome to this week's TMI. Some of this week's questions were featured in a Wet Wednesday post about a month ago. For those of you who missed them, can't remember them, or just can't be bothered scrolling back to check them out, I have reposted them here for your (re)viewing along with the answers to the other questions. If you want to join the TMI fun then just click HERE.
I am attempting to get something up here other than just TMI's, but the week just disappears so quickly that before I know it, it is Tuesday again. My apologies, andI will try to be more diligent.

1. Is sex hotter for you when it's forbidden? Or do you get wracked with guilt and it's not enjoyable?

Forbidden sex is absolutely hotter. I had feelings of guilt after the first time, with Eve, but the excitement factor was just so powerful that I had to experience it again, and again. The adrenaline rush of being with someone for the first time is incredible. That first kiss, the tingling electricity of the first touch, exploring each other's bodies and bringing pleasure to another person are highs like I have never felt before. I am addicted to forbidden sex.

2. Are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you? Do you need an emotional commitment from your partner for sex to be fulfilling?
Of course I find casual sexual encounters fulfilling. I am not seeking an emotional commitment. I have a wife, whom I love, but she can't/won't provide me with the intimacy that I need. Therefore it is only physical encounters that I seek, however I won't deny that I have become very attached to some of my lovers.

3. Do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it's more difficult to make a commitment and/or stay committed to your partner?
I wouldn't say that it was more difficult to stay committed, but it is easier to stray, if that makes sense. If a person is unhappy or unsatisfied at home then they no longer have to rely on a chance encounter with a like minded other in order to have an affair. Neither do they need to seek solace with escorts or prostitutes. Having access to online meeting sites makes it easier to connect with people in similar situations and allows screening of potential partners before any meeting takes place. I guess it just increases the success rate.

4. Have you ever joined or participated in an online dating site? If not, would you ever consider it? What about a fetish site, such as alt.com?
Yes, I have been a member (and still am a member) of several online dating sites. I have had varying degrees of success as different sites attract different people, however, some of my best lovers have been found on online sites and I have yet to tell you about them ;) I would consider joining any site, regardless of whether it was a fetish site or not. Who knows what may be out there if you don't look?

5. What is the weirdest fetish you've heard of?
The weirdest fetish that I know of would be people who get turned on by sniffing other people's feet, shoes, and other used footwear such as socks and stockings. Foot odour is just bad regardless of whose foot it comes from. I can appreciate sexy shoes, and lace stockings drive me crazy, but I don't need to smell them to get myself in the mood.

Bonus (as in optional): The definition of 'fetish' is so vague. Do you think you have a fetish(s)? If so, do you want to share what it is? ;)
I will admit that I am not real big on fetishes. I like my sex to be just the 'normal' boy/girl sort of thing. Having said that, I will confess that I haven't really tried anything else so I don't know whether it turns me on or not, but I am assuming that there must be some sort of leaning that way to want to venture further down the road. I am open to new experiences and there are things that I want to try, so I am not sure how to answer this. The idea of tying some one up, or being tied up is quite appealing, as is the thought of a 3some, 4some, or more some. I would also like to try a sum/dom type relationship to see what that is like. If any of these things fits into a fetish category, then I may just have one and didn't realize it.


Amorous Chick said...

Happy TMI!

Sexy Duet said...

Wow, some of our answers are really similar!

How about sending me over some of your cooler weather or I could just come there for a visit ;)

Happy TMI!


Bunny said...

Excellent answers. There definitely is something addictive about forbidden sex, I must agree. In fact, I'm jonesing for some right now . . .

Happy TMI!

P.S. I emailed you on deleting the video code

Naughty Endevours said...

Very interesting answers!
Happy TMI!!

Adam Apple said...

Thanks for stopping by.

Ms SD-
You are most welcome to visit. We are enjoying a cooler patch of weather although yesterday did nudge 36c. Hopefully there are not too many more of those days to come, and some of our cooler weather will reach you :)

Thanks for the editing advice. I learn something new every day.

Naughty Endevours-
I'm glad you enjoyed my responses. Thanks for your visit.