Tuesday, February 26, 2008

TMI Tuesday #15 & 16

This week is a double TMI for me. I had to sit last week's out because I lost my internet connection for the best part of the week. That problem is now (hopefully) resolved and I won't get started on the helpfulness of service providers when it is only a "single user fault". Single user or not, I still expect to be provided with the service I pay for. Anyway, last weeks questions were too good to let go so I will cover them this week as well. If you want to know what TMI is all about then click HERE to join the fun.

1. What can you consider as the greatest thing you've ever done for/ to yourself?
There would be a few things that would fit into this category, but I would say that quitting smoking over 15 years ago was one of the best things I have done. The dumbest thing would have been starting smoking in the first place. I look back now and realize that I could be having (and heading for) major health problems if I hadn't stopped. Even so, my health could be better if I hadn't started in the first place. Without good health everything else becomes that much more difficult.

2. What/ Which part of your life you think you could have done better and why?
I would like to have taken a different career path and gone with my heart, instead of my head and the well meaning advise of others. I wonder where my life would be at right now if I had have chosen a different route?

3. Do you have that one person whom you consider to be the wind beneath your wings?
Mrs A. would be the only person who would fit into this category. While we don't always see eye to eye on things, and we certainly have our differences of opinion, I have spent more of my life with her than without and can't imagine what life would be like without her.

4. Tell us about your longest relationship.
That would be my marriage to Mrs A. which is coming up for it's 20th anniversary this year. 20 years and no chance of early release for good behavior (not that I have been that good, so perhaps I will get time added on?) [only kidding!]

5. In a relationship, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?
I don't know because I haven't reached that stage, at least in this relationship anyway. We have come close a few times, I'm sure, but we have persevered and managed to work things out.

Bonus (as in optional):What is that one intimate moment with someone you miss so much and what are you willing to risk to have another moment of it. ;)
Well, what can I say here? My blog, and my life, is all about chasing that moment(s) and I know that the consequences will be devastating if it is ever discovered, but somehow the thrill of it all seems to outweigh the negatives, at least in my mind anyway.

1. Which one turns you on more Ink or piercing? Why?
Ink definitely turns me on, bigtime. There is something so sexy about a woman with a tattoo. But not just any tattoo, it has to be stylish & sexy, not loud and garish. It moves beyond sexy into H.O.T. if it is somewhere that is not too obvious and not intended for everyday viewing. I love seeing part of a tattoo peeking out from behind a piece of clothing, or a faint outline through a thin blouse or stocking. It is so erotic to find a discreet tattoo on a new, or potential, lover.

2. What ink do you have? If none, what would you get and and where?
I don't have any ink but I have considered getting one for a milestone birthday. It would probably be something small on my bicep or upper arm. Mrs A. would freak if I got one as she thinks they are 'thuggish', but perhaps that is part of the appeal of getting one.

3. What piercing do you have? If none, what would you get and and where?
No piercings. Never have and probably never will. I just don't find it that attractive, and even less so on blokes.

4. Any other adornments you like to do for your lover or have them do for you?
If you are getting any sort of body adornment then you should be getting it for yourself and not for your partner. Lovers come and go, even in the best of relationships, but tattoo's and the like are permanent and can be a daily reminder of an ex who is no longer as popular as they once were. So no, I wouldn't get anything done for someone else and I wouldn't expect them to get it done for me either. I would, however, like to experience oral sex from a woman with a tongue piercing, just so I can compare it and see if it is better. I will report back on my findings if this research comes to fruition.

5. Of all of the above is there anything that is an immediate Turn-Off?
Piercings can be an immediate turn off for me. I hate those washer things that people wear in their ears that leave a hole you can see through. I am also not attracted to people that have multiple facial piercings. It always looks like they fell face first into a box of fishing tackle.

Bonus (as in optional):
If money/work place rules/your life/whatever what ALL would you do to your body in the name of sexual or just general adornment?
As stated above, I am strongly drawn to the idea of a tattoo. I just have to be brave enough to weather Mrs A. wrath when she finds out and hope I can ride out the storm.

I hope this wasn't too much information for you to digest in one sitting. Enjoy the rest of your day, and readers from the Northern Hemisphere, please enjoy your cooler weather for me. I have just about had enough of this long, hot summer and I am hanging out for some cooler weather. Bring on the rain!!

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Wet Wednesday - on any other day

Welcome to Wet Wednesday, albeit late and on the wrong day. This week's questions were just so appropriate for my blog that I just had to play along. If you want to play along, or just want to find out about Wet Wednesday then just click HERE.

1. for you, is sex hotter when it is forbidden? or are you the sort that is wracked with guilt and it is not enjoyable?
Forbidden sex is absolutely hotter. I had feelings of guilt after the first time, with Eve, but the excitement factor was just so powerful that I had to experience it again, and again. The adrenaline rush of being with someone for the first time is incredible. That first kiss, the tingling electricity of the first touch, exploring each other's bodies and bringing pleasure to another person are highs like I have never felt before. I am addicted to forbidden sex.

2. are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you, or do you need an emotional commitment from your partner?
Of course I find casual sexual encounters fulfilling. I am not seeking an emotional commitment. I have a wife, whom I love, but she can't/won't provide me with the intimacy that I need. Therefore it is only physical encounters that I seek, however I won't deny that I have become very attached to some of my lovers.

3. do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it's more difficult to stay committed to your partner?
I wouldn't say that it was more difficult to stay committed, but it is easier to stray, if that makes sense. If a person is unhappy or unsatisfied at home then they no longer have to rely on a chance encounter with a like minded other in order to have an affair. Neither do they need to seek solace with escorts or prostitutes. Having access to online meeting sites makes it easier to connect with people in similar situations and allows screening of potential partners before any meeting takes place. I guess it just increases the success rate.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

TMI Tuesday #14

Here is this week's TMI. If you wish to find out what TMI is all about, then just click HERE and feel free to join in. It's a lot of fun.

1. what's the sexiest gesture a person you are sexually interested can make?
The eyes have it. I can't explain what it is exactly, but there is a certain look that an interested woman can give and I am hooked. I have no idea how to do it, but I know it when I see it and it usually means that the woman is interested and is flirting with me.

2. what are 3 inevitable things about you?
- if I met you, I would probably want to sleep with you.
- if I slept with you once, I would definitely want to do it again.
- I would then fantasize about you for the rest of my life.

3. how many types of orgasms have you experienced?
I am sure that I have only ever experienced one type of orgasm. They all feel pretty much the same (amazingly good), ad only the intensity varies. If men are capable of experiencing different types of orgasms, then I need a teacher to take me through the range. I would hate to think that I was missing out on something.

4. what asset do you have besides the physical and the material?
I am a good listener. I may not always be great a making conversation, but I do listen to people when they are talking to me, particularly if they are sharing a problem or issue that they are working through.

5. what do you want . . . . now?
Holly. We only saw each other a few times but I really liked her and felt that our lives were so similar. I hope that we do get to catch up again at some future date.

Bonus (as in optional):describe a sexy mind.
A sexy mind is one that can engage me in flirtatious conversation, and have me longing to know everything that there is to know about you. A sexy mind can use words to paint pictures, and the words they use heighten any experience that is to follow. A sexy mind knows how to lure and seduce, and the seduction part of a relationship is the sweetest part of all. The promise of things to come...

Hey! I can't believe that I am nearing 1000 visits. That just blows my mind, that so many people would take the time to visit my little corner of cyberspace. If you happen to be my 1000th visitor, please leave me a comment letting me know who you are, or email me if you don't want to leave your details in the comments. It would be nice to know who ticked that little counter over.

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Holly Days (Summer Romance - part 2).

Finally, the kids are back at school and I have found a few spare minutes to complete my account of Holly during the summer break. Here we go...

A few minutes after leaving home I arrived at Holly's unit and knocked on the door with a certain degree of trepidation. She answered almost immediately and let me in, saying she was glad I had come over. I sat at the kitchen bench while Holly went about preparing some coffee. After she had made it, she brought the cups over and went to sit next to me. I stood up and reached an arm out to her. She came to me, I kissed her and wrapped my arms around her. We quickly forgot about the coffee.

She seemed eager for attention and hungry for love. We kissed passionately for several minutes and our hands alternated between grasping each other's hair and exploring an unfamiliar body. She took my hand and led me through to the bedroom. It took no time at all for us to remove each other's clothing and tumble onto the bed.

Holly had lovely, full breasts with dark pink nipples. They looked even lovelier than I had remembered them from the beach. As I ran my hands over them, she confessed that she had known I was observing her at the beach and had wanted to tease me. I'm glad she did because it certainly got my attention. I licked and sucked her nipples while running my hand across her stomach and thighs. I ended up at the dark curls that covered her pussy.

She parted her legs and I dipped my fingers into her wetness. She was so wet that my finger slid easily between her lips and found her clit. I teased her a little, but I had to taste her so I eased myself down between her legs and parted her lips. I slid some fingers into her while I licked and sucked her. Her juices poured out over my hand, and she tasted so sweet.

Then Holly took control. She didn't want to cum just yet so she pushed me onto my back and began to please me. She found my weakness immediately as she nibbled on my nipples. Sensing my pleasure she worked on them for longer than anyone has in quite a while. By the time she got to my cock, I was rock hard and precum was dribbling from the end. Her mouth and hands worked beautifully over my shaft and balls and if possible, she got me even harder.

She was ready for me then, so she straddled me and lowered herself onto my cock. I easily slid into her waiting slit and she began to ride me. Slowly at first and I reached up to squeeze and fondle her bouncing breasts. Then I slipped my hands down to grip her arse and pull her down harder on my cock. She got faster and soon she was riding me with wild abandon. I was thrusting back into her. She must have wanted me to cum because she took one hand and began to tease my nipples again. It was too much for me and I grabbed her hips and started to shoot into her. Feeling me go, she started to cum as well and I felt her pussy grip me as waves of ecstasy washed over the two of us. She collapsed back onto the bed and we lay there together, our fingers lightly exploring each other's bodies.

We chatted for a while, in the semi darkness of her bedroom. It seems our marriages were very similar, and each of us was starved of the intimacy that we once enjoyed with our respective partners. It seems so sad that people have to seek comfort in the arms of strangers because their needs are being ignored by the person they love. Even though we came from opposite sides of the world, our lives were almost identical.

Anyway, eventually we headed for the shower to clean up. Under the warm water we washed each other with soapy hands. Holly washed my cock and I soaped her breasts. I found myself becoming hard again and Holly became more enthusiastic with her washing. Soon I had her pressed against the tile wall and I entered her from behind while my hand searched her out in front. I wasn't able to cum a second time (I'm not as young as I once was), but I brought Holly to another climax. We exited the shower, dried off and got dressed.

Time was now of the essence as it was nearing lunch time and my family would be returning from the beach, while Holly's would be back from their cruise. We kissed and said our goodbyes before going our separate ways.

I had one more encounter with Holly before she left, and then she was headed back to England so there would be no more meetings. We did exchange email addresses and we have been in touch since, with a few steamy emails. I hope our paths cross again one day because I really liked her and felt like I had found a kindred spirit in her. If not, then there is always web cam I suppose...

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

TMI Tuesday #13

1. By what nickname(s) were you known as a child?
I can't really think of any at the moment. I really only got called Adam, or Addo, for short. I don't think there were any nicknames as such.

2. Do you have a favorite poem and, if so, what is it? Recite it (or a snippet) here, please.
One of my favourite poems would have to be "The Rime of the Ancient Mariner" by Samuel Taylor Coleridge. It is such a long tale and there are many facets to the story behind it, but I always remember the verse;

Water, water every where
And all the boards did shrink;
Water, water every where,
Ne any drop to drink.

Another favourite of mine is "The Charge of The Light Brigade" by Alfred, Lord Tennyson.

Cannon to right of them,
Cannon to left of them,
23 Cannons in front of them
Volley'd & thunder'd;
Storm'd at with shot and shell,
Boldly they rode and well,
Into the jaws of Death,

Into the mouth of Hell

Rode the six hundred.

Take your pick. Both are classics in my book.

3. What is your greatest regret in life, something that you failed to do that you wish you did?
I try not to live with regret, but if there was something that I wish I had persued when I was younger, it would have to be a career in the literary field. I was talked out of it at school despite winning some writing awards. I was told that writing wouldn't pay the bills and I would be better served with a more 'conventional' career. Thank God for blogs, hey?

4. You are tired and hungry, but it's too late to cook. If any snack food were available to you, what would you choose and why?
If we are talking fast food then I find it hard to go past Subway. Pure snack food would have to be a bag of potato chips (crisps). There's nothing better for devouring on the couch while watching TV.

5. What is the oldest item of clothing (not jewelry!) that you wear regularly and what do you love about it?
I have many old concert T-shirts, some from over 20 years ago, that I love to wear and can't bear to part with. The ones that are a little past it and not fit for public viewing get to rest peacefully in the bottom of the shirt drawer. They have to many memories to throw them away. "Rock and Roll will never die".

Bonus (as in optional):Name a movie or TV show that changed your thinking or behavior.
2001:A Space Odyssey. I think it was the first film that I saw that didn't just tell a story. Partly abstract, partly linear story, I have read and heard so many interpretations of what it all means and not one of them is definitive. The idea of something monitoring man's progress appealed to me as a teenager discovering life for himself.

Please excuse the formatting. I have had a hell of a time trying to get it looking right and nothing seems to work. Short of deleting and starting again, I am at a loss as to what is going on. Even spellcheck seems inactive.