Saturday, February 16, 2008

Wet Wednesday - on any other day

Welcome to Wet Wednesday, albeit late and on the wrong day. This week's questions were just so appropriate for my blog that I just had to play along. If you want to play along, or just want to find out about Wet Wednesday then just click HERE.

1. for you, is sex hotter when it is forbidden? or are you the sort that is wracked with guilt and it is not enjoyable?
Forbidden sex is absolutely hotter. I had feelings of guilt after the first time, with Eve, but the excitement factor was just so powerful that I had to experience it again, and again. The adrenaline rush of being with someone for the first time is incredible. That first kiss, the tingling electricity of the first touch, exploring each other's bodies and bringing pleasure to another person are highs like I have never felt before. I am addicted to forbidden sex.

2. are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you, or do you need an emotional commitment from your partner?
Of course I find casual sexual encounters fulfilling. I am not seeking an emotional commitment. I have a wife, whom I love, but she can't/won't provide me with the intimacy that I need. Therefore it is only physical encounters that I seek, however I won't deny that I have become very attached to some of my lovers.

3. do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it's more difficult to stay committed to your partner?
I wouldn't say that it was more difficult to stay committed, but it is easier to stray, if that makes sense. If a person is unhappy or unsatisfied at home then they no longer have to rely on a chance encounter with a like minded other in order to have an affair. Neither do they need to seek solace with escorts or prostitutes. Having access to online meeting sites makes it easier to connect with people in similar situations and allows screening of potential partners before any meeting takes place. I guess it just increases the success rate.


Sexy Duet said...

I think you are spot on with your answer to #3 - with the online dating sites it is certainly much easier to find someone to have a casual encounter with.

I understand your answer to #1, that is probably something that is the hardest to keep going in a long term relationship - the feeling of newness.

Great answers.


Adam Apple said...

Mrs SD-

Thanks for stopping by. You are right, that it is difficult to keep the spark alive in long term relationships. Hooray for online dating!!