Monday, December 24, 2007

Merry Christmas

It is likely that this will be my last post of the year.

One of the advantages of living in the southern hemisphere is that Christmas falls during our summer. This makes it an ideal time to take some time off and escape for a week or two. That is exactly what I intend to do as my family and I head off on our annual summer vacation. We will spend the next 2 weeks at a little coastal community about 6 hours drive from where I live in The Garden of Eden. There is very little to do there except relax, read a book or two, enjoy the beach, and watch all the lovely ladies in their bikinis and swimming costumes. I have several good books to take with me, and I may get a few more for Xmas, and the new Eagles CD, 'Long Road Out of Eden', seems appropriate in both title and mood. It has been on constant rotation since I purchased it a few weeks back and the music is perfect for those long, summer days, chillin' on the sand.

I want to thank everybody who has stopped by since I started blogging a few months ago. I wish you all a very Merry Christmas, and a happy and safe New Year. I look forward to sharing some more of my adventures with you in 2008. Secretly, I am hoping that something may happen while I am away that will be worthy of a post or two.

Here's hoping that Santa gets to empty his sack at your place this Christmas, and that all your stockings get nicely stuffed with the things you like.


Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Wet Wednesday

Hey, look at this, my second post in as many days. That is some kind of record for me. I promise that I will do better in the New Year, but it just seems I have no time to myself at the moment with the silly season upon us.
I thought I would have a go at this Meme that I found the other day. Check it out here.

1. what is the longest you have gone without sex involuntarily? as in, you wanted to, but you couldn't for whatever reason?
That would be about 9 months, or maybe even a year. It was quite a while ago now and was while Mrs A. was pregnant and just after the birth of our first child. She just didn't want me near her pregnant body.

2. what was the longest time period you've had to wait for oral sex, and was it worth the wait? why or why not?
I am always waiting for oral sex. Mrs A. doesn't approve of oral sex as she thinks it is inappropriate to bring your mouth into contact with 'those areas'. So prior to starting on my side projects it would have been many years since I had my cock sucked, or since I tasted pussy. Of course the wait was worth it, I mean to say, who ever heard of a guy complaining cos he got a bad BJ??

3. what was the longest time period between when you were supposed to have sex (for instance, you'd made a date for it), and when you actually had it? did the wait make it a better experience?
Nothing springs to mind like the present. I am trying to arrange to meet a 'friend' that I met quite a while ago. We both want to get together but it is proving very difficult at the moment with Christmas just around the corner and kids on summer holidays. I just know that it will be worth it when we finally meet up.

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

TMI Tuesday #9

1. Are you done with your shopping yet?
Yes, all done. I am a clever, little boy. Just the grocery shopping to do now, but most of that can't be done til the last minute anyway.

2. What is your favorite sexual position?
Oh, I have quite a few that I love. '69' works well for me, although it can be a bit distracting to deliver good oral while enjoying getting your cock sucked. Taking a woman from behind is a definite favourite as I love to look at the curves of her body, the hourglass shape ending in the flair of the hips, while I can see my cock slide in and out of her, my length coated in her slick juices. Being able to hold her hips and control the depth and speed of penetration is a wonderful aphrodisiac. Leaning forward to stroke her back or tug her hair as required is another benefit. And that tempting little pucker of her arse. Should I, or shouldn't I...? I'll leave you to wonder.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how open are you to trying new sexual things?
That would be a big 10. How will I know if I like it if I don't try it?? Part of my wandering stems from the fact that Mrs A. is very vanilla as far as sex is concerned, and I have so many things that I want to try. If I suggest them at home I get treated like a deviant, so I have to find other places to play.

4. What present are you hoping to get this year?
Awesome, anonymous sex would be good, but failing that, any good book or cd will do.

5. With your current partner (or your last partner) how often was the sex better than just good?
Occasionally with Mrs A. the sex gets real good, but I think that stems from the fact that I get so Goddamn horny that I appreciate any attention that I get. With my last 'friend with benefits', I can't remember a time when it was less then awesome. Perhaps our limited time together meant that we had to extract every ounce of pleasure from each other, and that resulted in some earth shaking sex :)

Bonus (as in optional):Can a relationship that you are part of survive on sex alone? Could it survive a prolonged period of abstinence?
I would have to say Yes to both parts of this question. I have had relationships that just based on sex alone and have lasted for extended periods of time. On the other hand, my marriage has lasted for nearly 20 years and until recently, when I started to play away, it has had several lengthy periods of abstinence.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

TMI Tuesday #8

1. Are you and early shopper or a late shopper?
Usually early. This year I have most of it done and only a few little items still remain. I try to get it done early as I just hate the shops at this time of the year.

2. What is your favorite cartoon (current or passed)?
My all time favourite would be the Roadrunner cartoons. I loved the coyote's wild schemes to catch that annoying bird. One day I would have loved to see him succeed. I also liked Beavis & Butthead cos they remind me of my first trip to the US. They were big on MTV then and they had some rockin' music videos that they commented on. It took about another 5 years before they hit Australian screens and it never seemed as good as I remembered it back then.
Favourite comic book hero was Spiderman.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how competent are you on home repair projects?
Probably be an 8 or 9. I can manage most things except major works. I am willing to have a go at most jobs ( and then call the experts in later to fix up my mess. (only kidding)).

4. What is your favorite holiday tradition?
I love putting up our tree. And I love Xmas Eve as the kids head off to bed with wide eyed expectation. Mine still believe in Santa (as do I) and they leave all sorts of little gifts and snacks for him. Then they hang their stockings, hop into bed, and try so hard to fall asleep.
I also love our annual Xmas holiday, which begins on Dec 27 when we head up the coast for 2 weeks of relaxing beach side leisure. Ahhh, the joys of Xmas in Summer.

5. Describe your favorite kiss? Do you give it or receive it?
My favourite kiss is one in which we are both involved in, so giving and receiving. It's hands entwined in hair, lips locked together in heated passion, bodies pressed against each other, both parties lost in the moment. The best kisses are the ones where nothing else exists.

Bonus (as in optional):What is the best holiday gift you have ever gotten? Best you've given?
I love most of my gifts that I have received. I usually ask for books or CDs, and my family and friends know that this is a safe bet when buying a gift.
If I ask Mrs A. what the best gift I have given her is, then I am sure she would say it was her Foot Spa. After a long day on her feet, she loves to relax with her feet in the tub of bubbling warm water. Only problem is, she relaxes so much that she is usually not in the mood for any further pleasures afterward :(

Saturday, December 8, 2007

A Close Shave

Gee, I have been slack lately. Seems the only post I have managed to get up has been the weekly TMI's. It has just been so busy as the silly season kicks into top gear. I don't see it getting any better over the next few weeks so I will just have to do the best that I can.

The last week or so, I have read many posts about shaving of the nether regions. Mostly this was due to TMI asking about the acceptability of stubble, but it was preceded by Renee in her post 'step away from the razor...'. In it she spoke of her husband's lack of offering to assist her in the trimming of her pussy. She says, "I thought that was a fantasy for a lot of men", but apparently her husband is not one of them. Well, for me, it is a fantasy of mine, however, Mrs A. will not allow me to participate in this act. Not that she completely shaves her pussy, but she takes care of it herself and refuses to let me be involved. I have offered on numerous occasions, only to be turned down. It seems if I am to participate in such an event then it will have to be outside the marital scene.

I have thought about this, and the whole fantasy about shaving a pussy seems to stem from my formative teenage years. I can clearly remember going through my father's stack of girlie magazines and one particular storyline standing out. I must have flicked through it a dozen times as I can still remember it all these years later. It was a pictorial about a lady and a man who were playing a game of pool together. The woman lost the game and as part of his winnings, the man got to shave the lady's pussy.

She took off all her clothes, and then sat on the pool table and opened her legs. She had quite a hairy snatch as we are talking about the late '70's. The man lathered up a shaving brush and applied a thick, creamy foam over her pussy. Then he took a cut-throat razor and proceeded to shave her pubic hair away. Stroke for stroke this was captured in glorious colour for my viewing pleasure. In the end, he wiped her clean with a towel and she was exposed for the world to see. Powerful images for a such a young mind.

Many years later, I still long to be able to re-create such scenes. I would love to part a lady's legs and gently apply shave foam to her fur. massage it in with my fingers, and ensure an even coating. Then take a razor and slowly remove her covering, one stroke at a time. Finish her off with a warm face washer, and then sit back to admire my handiwork along with her uncovered pleasures. I would have to sample the closeness of my cut by nestling my face against her freshly shaven skin and pushing my tongue between her folds. I know it would feel so good that I would have to spend hours pleasuring her, just so I could feel her naked skin next to my cheeks, and upon my lips. I wouldn't mind returning the favour and allowing her to shave me and then sample her work. Then, perhaps, we could bring our new skin together and feel the wonderful sensation of skin on skin.

Any volunteers??

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

TMI Tuesday #7

1. If your partner buys you a sexy little "something" is it a present for you or for your partner?
Hmmm!! Mrs A. doesn't buy sexy little anythings, despite my best efforts to steer her in that direction. If I was to buy the gift then it would probably end up in the bin, so that would be a waste of money. However, I have had some of my lady 'friends' buy sexy lingerie to wear for our encounters, and also one who purchased a vibrator for us to use on each other. I consider those to be sexy little 'somethings' that we both got to enjoy ;)

2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"?
I don't know what "my type" is, so I might have to think about this one and come back to it later.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how good a cook are you?
Since I am a qualified cook, and I do a lot of the cooking at home, I had better rate myself up at the high end of the scale. Let's say 8.5. I have taken points off because I am not the best cook in the world, and we don't do dinner parties much anymore, but I can still hold my own in the kitchen.

4. Tattoos: Love them or hate them. On you? On a partner?
I confess, I have a thing for tattoos, particularly on women. I love seeing a design on a woman's body, especially if it is partially covered by clothing because then it is like seeing something that maybe you weren't meant to. I also like undressing a woman and finding a tattoo that I didn't know existed. I wonder about how many others might have seen it. I have also thought about getting a tattoo myself, just a small one, somewhere discreet. I know Mrs A. hates them so I often wonder if this is the reason I want to get one. I know all hell would break loose in The Garden of Eden if I ever did, but some days I think it might be worth it...

5. Stubble: Good or bad? How often do you shave?
Where is the stubble?
A little facial stubble (on men, not women) can be sexy, but there is the possibility of 'pash rash'. I usually shave if I know I am going to have a hot pash session, unless my partner requests otherwise. I know some ladies like the rough feel of stubble on their men, but it can be a bit like sandpaper.
Stubble in other areas is a no-no as far as I am concerned. I don't mind if your pussy has hair or not, but if you choose not then keep it well shaved. I find stubble very off putting if I am trying to orally pleasure my woman. I keep my balls hair free for your enjoyment and I shave them every few days, or more often if there is a special event planned.

Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things (both sexual non-sexual)?
Sexual Favourites:- Hot, passionate kisses, Oral sex both giving and receiving, the Complete abandonment of wild fucking, and Cuddling in the afterglow
Non-sexual Favourites:- include the smell of fresh coffee, thunderstorms, the ocean (and the beach) in winter, marshmallows, dark chocolate, getting caught in the rain, freshly mown grass. There are many others, but these are top of the list for me.

Happy TMI everyone.