Wet Wednesday - on any other day

Welcome to Wet Wednesday, albeit late and on the wrong day. This week's questions were just so appropriate for my blog that I just had to play along. If you want to play along, or just want to find out about Wet Wednesday then just click HERE.

1. for you, is sex hotter when it is forbidden? or are you the sort that is wracked with guilt and it is not enjoyable?
Forbidden sex is absolutely hotter. I had feelings of guilt after the first time, with Eve, but the excitement factor was just so powerful that I had to experience it again, and again. The adrenaline rush of being with someone for the first time is incredible. That first kiss, the tingling electricity of the first touch, exploring each other's bodies and bringing pleasure to another person are highs like I have never felt before. I am addicted to forbidden sex.

2. are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you, or do you need an emotional commitment from your partner?
Of course I find casual sexual encounters fulfilling. I am not seeking an emotional commitment. I have a wife, whom I love, but she can't/won't provide me with the intimacy that I need. Therefore it is only physical encounters that I seek, however I won't deny that I have become very attached to some of my lovers.

3. do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it's more difficult to stay committed to your partner?
I wouldn't say that it was more difficult to stay committed, but it is easier to stray, if that makes sense. If a person is unhappy or unsatisfied at home then they no longer have to rely on a chance encounter with a like minded other in order to have an affair. Neither do they need to seek solace with escorts or prostitutes. Having access to online meeting sites makes it easier to connect with people in similar situations and allows screening of potential partners before any meeting takes place. I guess it just increases the success rate.

Wet Wednesday

Wet Wednesday is another meme that I like to participate in every now and then. This set of questions got my juices flowing (so to speak) so I just had to join in. If you want to participate, just head on over to Wet Wednesday and share in the fun.

1. Is pregnancy sex a turn-on for you? why or why not?
I find the idea of sex with a pregnant woman to be very exciting indeed. I'm not sure what it is that turns me on about pregnant women, but I find their bodies to be incredibly attractive, particularly in the middle trimester. I like the way a woman's body changes during pregnancy. I love the fullness of her breasts, and the swelling of her stomach as new life begins inside.


2. If you've been pregnant, did your sex drive increase or decrease? if you're male, has your partner's drive changed when they're pregnant?
I'm not sure if Mrs A's sex drive diminished or not, but we pretty well ceased having sex as soon as she found out she was pregnant. I believe that she didn't want to take any chances with something going wrong, particularly with our second as it took so long to conceive. Anyways, I was on 'self serve' for the duration of both pregnancies, and it didn't get any better immediately afterwards (see next question).


3. Most doctors advise waiting six weeks before having intercourse (i barely lasted four with my second). did you take their advice?
Mrs A went well beyond the 6 week recommendation. As she had C-section for both births, it was quite a while before I was allowed to partake of those pleasures. In fact, since our second nearly 4 years ago, sex has only been an intermittent occurrence in this household, and hence the subject matter for this blog came into being. I mean to say, we are all human, and Chastity is not a virtue I can embrace...

Wet Wednesday

Hey, look at this, my second post in as many days. That is some kind of record for me. I promise that I will do better in the New Year, but it just seems I have no time to myself at the moment with the silly season upon us.
I thought I would have a go at this Meme that I found the other day. Check it out here.

1. what is the longest you have gone without sex involuntarily? as in, you wanted to, but you couldn't for whatever reason?
That would be about 9 months, or maybe even a year. It was quite a while ago now and was while Mrs A. was pregnant and just after the birth of our first child. She just didn't want me near her pregnant body.

2. what was the longest time period you've had to wait for oral sex, and was it worth the wait? why or why not?
I am always waiting for oral sex. Mrs A. doesn't approve of oral sex as she thinks it is inappropriate to bring your mouth into contact with 'those areas'. So prior to starting on my side projects it would have been many years since I had my cock sucked, or since I tasted pussy. Of course the wait was worth it, I mean to say, who ever heard of a guy complaining cos he got a bad BJ??

3. what was the longest time period between when you were supposed to have sex (for instance, you'd made a date for it), and when you actually had it? did the wait make it a better experience?
Nothing springs to mind like the present. I am trying to arrange to meet a 'friend' that I met quite a while ago. We both want to get together but it is proving very difficult at the moment with Christmas just around the corner and kids on summer holidays. I just know that it will be worth it when we finally meet up.